3's Company and 4's a Bore
Single, couple, pop; there's a bun in the oven about to drop.
The night's of the single, glamour girl are now behind you. You've swayed, swatted, and swooned. You've kissed a prince, he made you cry, you brushed off your shoulder and said good-bye.
Fast-forward. Through several tubes of gloss, and countless puckering, you've found the one. Yes, the one!
Sharing is caring, marriage is bliss, the bed of two is now;
Conversing with parents sparked a huge question: When is the correct time to make children sleep in their own beds? I've heard stories from parent's expressing dismay over the sleeping arrangements. One parent is OK with the family bed while the other thinks its an absolute chore. I've heard complaints extending from: the impact on their comfort, sleep, as well as intimacy. I couldn't imagine, except in extreme circumstances, allowing such variable to create such a negative influence on my life.
One parent stated, "I'll just sleep on the couch if it gets too bad".
When asked about intimacy, she said, " We just have sex with them there; they sleep hard".
EXCUSE ME! YOU DO WHAT!
Readers, excuse me if I'm missing something. I am no mom, no step-mom, no 1/2 of a couple for that matter, but "getting busy" with "my child(ren)" in the bed seems absolutely repugnant.
However, the respondent is not alone. I researched a few articles in which parents admitted to having "quiet sex" while their children laid in slumber.
So that leaves me to ask, When should children sleep in their own beds? Also, should parents have sex while their children are in the bed?
I really want to hear your voice.